Okay so, I can answer a bit.
I've been dating my SO for 11 years now, but my character is married to a very close friend of mine who I met in the game.
The answer is: Whenever you feel like it is.
Are you uncomfortable with how much time she's spending RPing with this person? Does she RP with them a lot? Did they get really close in a short amount of time and their OOC interactions are making you uncomfortable? Do you know the RP partner and does he talk to you? Does she ERP without your permission (Or with your "I guess it's okay..." kind of permission)?
Take a look at the idea objectively. If she's rping with this guy every day, for hours and hours, and you have no idea what the rp is or whats going on - that's not really okay if your uncomfortable. If it's a couple times a week and she doesn't seem to be hiding anything from you, that could be your own insecurity.
There's a lot of variables to this question because people are very different. Me and my SO aren't jealous people, we give each other a lot of space, but not all relationships are like ours and that's okay. You get to set the boundaries of what is comfortable to deal with. If what she's doing isn't comfortable for YOU, then it's generally not okay.
If you need a more specific answer, I'm afraid you'll have to get a little more specific.
I've been dating my SO for 11 years now, but my character is married to a very close friend of mine who I met in the game.
The answer is: Whenever you feel like it is.
Are you uncomfortable with how much time she's spending RPing with this person? Does she RP with them a lot? Did they get really close in a short amount of time and their OOC interactions are making you uncomfortable? Do you know the RP partner and does he talk to you? Does she ERP without your permission (Or with your "I guess it's okay..." kind of permission)?
Take a look at the idea objectively. If she's rping with this guy every day, for hours and hours, and you have no idea what the rp is or whats going on - that's not really okay if your uncomfortable. If it's a couple times a week and she doesn't seem to be hiding anything from you, that could be your own insecurity.
There's a lot of variables to this question because people are very different. Me and my SO aren't jealous people, we give each other a lot of space, but not all relationships are like ours and that's okay. You get to set the boundaries of what is comfortable to deal with. If what she's doing isn't comfortable for YOU, then it's generally not okay.
If you need a more specific answer, I'm afraid you'll have to get a little more specific.
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