Yeah definitely talk to her about the fact that you want to spend quality time in the game with just you two. If the guy is not a jerk, he'll also understand that you two want to just hang out together and he can make an appearance later. Set those boundaries ("I'm fine with you rping, but I'd like you to spend time with me in the game as well"). If you're new to the roleplaying scene (Even just watching it from the sidelines) I absolutely understand how this can be playing with your insecurities. It's almost odd to watch romance rp and think that it's fake. But, don't be quick to anger, calm communication is very important. Good luck and if you have any other questions, feel free to ask.
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