(12-31-2016, 06:54 PM)Tyndles Wrote: After reading your last post, I gotta assume the worst for you. I don't think she's into you anymore man. I think she cares and wants to be friends, but I think you lost this one.
I'm gonna have to echo this, sorry. For some relationship advice that is not at all role-play related: give it up and move on. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's the simplest way to put it. A "break" is never a break. In my experience (not personally, as I've never had someone try that with me, but from what I've seen with others) a break is always an excuse for a breakup that's left indefinite so the other person "can't" get as upset, and is often a ploy to keep the person around in case the one who broke up with them changes their mind or gets lonely. The fact that you two are still talking regularly, she's entertaining the idea of the getting back with you and making plans to have lunch with you, makes me think the latter is indeed happening.
There's no reason someone cannot work on themselves while still having an SO--in fact, having an SO to support you even just emotionally can be so, so helpful in these things. Worst case scenario, someone might have to tell their spouse, "Hey, I can't talk or hang out much for a while, but we'll stay together if you're cool with that." There's no reason for a relationship to need any sort of "temporary breakup." And I think the fact that she did it while mid-vacation (when I'm assuming you hadn't seen her for days, and wouldn't be able to see her for days still) and not in person is pretty telling of how little she is invested in any sort of (potential/future) relationship with you.
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