
There are honestly a lot of things I've learned to look for, but mainly...
- OOC clinginess, jealousy, possessiveness, controllingness, (passive) aggression to people around me, the need to know where I am and what I'm doing all the time, etc.
- Metagaming, powerplaying, godmodding, objective lore-breaking, blurring IC and OOC, typical RP taboos.
- Disrespecting my time with flakiness, constant retconning, guilt-tripping me for being unavailable, or demanding I drop what I'm doing and spend time with them.
- Always steering the RP toward sex, ignoring boundaries, inappropriate comments or questions OOC, obsession with ERP, using RP to live out some fetish, trying to fetishize my character.
- Purple prose, unnecessary text walls, anything else that makes the RP harder to read for no good reason.
- OOC constantly trash-talking other people and RP styles, sexist and racist remarks, you know, people you typically don't want to hang around.