Xha'li is not exactly fond of extremely matriarchal nature of Keeper society in the ways that the elder women of the tribe have most to all of the authority as it led to his exile because he wanted to learn magic, something his tribes matriarch had discouraged before the calamity and succeeded in getting banned completely afterwards blaming mages for the fall of Dalamund. His mother being a retired adventurer, and growing up on tales of her adventures as a kid definitely helped push him away from being the obedient little male as well.
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