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There are actually a few groups on Balmung that fit a lot of what you're describing, so you might want to check them out first and see if they don't fit your needs. My FC, Blades of Nald'thal is one of them, and I suggest also checking out XI:7 as well. If neither of them fit your needs it at least proves that there is an interest for structured military type RP.