Nice copy pasta there. But in all seriousness can you actually answer our questions? This is a few steps away from being a Second Life escourt club (I totally Googled it last night).
I applaud the effort you put into this event, anyone who puts an event together deserves respect, as I could never do it. But either you're being willfully ignorant or this was your plan all along. You're fooling yourself if you think that revealing the RL gender of hosts/maids wont encourage people to take it further then flirting. If all you wanted to do was a cutesy event why not do a date auction? Why choose a theme from fan-service anime?
I applaud the effort you put into this event, anyone who puts an event together deserves respect, as I could never do it. But either you're being willfully ignorant or this was your plan all along. You're fooling yourself if you think that revealing the RL gender of hosts/maids wont encourage people to take it further then flirting. If all you wanted to do was a cutesy event why not do a date auction? Why choose a theme from fan-service anime?