I was thinking of the whole Maid Café thing but I didn't think about it until people mentioned it (I'm aware of them and such, just not for me ever).
Maid Cafes as far as I know are much more in lines with RP than this. Every "maid" would be in their role. They wouldn't reveal anything about themselves in RL because of the very issues that we are trying focus on.
That said, I still hope you don't run into any of these issues. Just don't be surprised by it. I think it's putting undue burden on those putting their time into the fundraiser.
Maid Cafes as far as I know are much more in lines with RP than this. Every "maid" would be in their role. They wouldn't reveal anything about themselves in RL because of the very issues that we are trying focus on.
That said, I still hope you don't run into any of these issues. Just don't be surprised by it. I think it's putting undue burden on those putting their time into the fundraiser.