(07-15-2014, 02:18 PM)ArmachiA Wrote:(07-15-2014, 02:13 PM)Zhavi Wrote: Long post is long but I'm addressing the entire thing
It would be like a bunch of us Garleans (My FC's alts and the Garlean FC in Ul'dah, deciding to storm the castle with all their weaponry and technology and say "We've taken over the city now." Do you think everyone would appreciate it? No. Some would go along with it because it would be fun for them, but many many RPers would feel put out that it happened at all. Forcing something they wanted nothing to do with and US saying "Whelp, the Garleans took Ul'dah, if you don't like it, ignore it."
I think we can all agree that would be a problem.
I have nothing at stake with anything going on in Ul'dah, so I'm gonna give you a theoretical.
If someone did something in Limsa that was at total odds with my rp, to the point that it somehow broke my rp, I would first try to talk to whomever was organizing it to see if we couldn't make the two fit together.
If that, despite all best intentions and efforts, became impossible, then I would continue to rp alongside them while totally ignoring anything having to do with stuff that broke my rp. Why? Because I'm stubborn. I have chosen this as a hobby, I will make it work. As long as even one person is interested in rping with me, I will continue doing what I'm doing. I've been called nasty names for having that sort of attitude (not here, different site), but to me it's just sorta. . .live and let live. I will do my best to compromise, but at the end of the day I need to have fun.
That goes for every rper, I think.
And I am really sorry you feel like stuff has broken your rp. That's never a good feeling to have.