
This was probably something best discussed privately with the site admin, as only that person can give you the absolute answer you're looking for. Anyway, I know what issues you're referring to and that also struck me as odd, but taking a step back, it wholly depends on how it was handled. The person in question could simply have asked the admin here to perform a check to verify their existing concerns. In this case, no personal information is actually given; its simply a yes or no. On the other hand, it could play out exactly as you fear, which could be a problem I suppose, but going off my own experiences, I've had no cause to worry about that kind of thing. Plus, virtually anyone can get at your IP with frighteningly little work.
Its also worth noting for the reader who doesn't know the situation that there's a good deal of personal harassment and possible stalker-ish behavior involved. Its not merely a case of 'you made this person angry, your information is now up in the air'.
Its also worth noting for the reader who doesn't know the situation that there's a good deal of personal harassment and possible stalker-ish behavior involved. Its not merely a case of 'you made this person angry, your information is now up in the air'.