For the most part, I know that a lot of Xaela tend to hang out in front of the Quicksand in Ul'dah as a meeting place, near the gate to Central Thanalan. I think there's also a weekly gathering of Qalli (though I believe generally all Xaela are welcome) on Sundays. http://clansarant.enjin.com/
And, of course, I'll go ahead and plug my own character as somebody who's (usually) always willing to talk with another Xaela wherever and whenever. So go ahead and shoot me a whisper if you're ever interested, and we can work something out!
And, of course, I'll go ahead and plug my own character as somebody who's (usually) always willing to talk with another Xaela wherever and whenever. So go ahead and shoot me a whisper if you're ever interested, and we can work something out!