I don't care if you can break duty finder with a pre-made, nor do I care about dated Coil experiences, something most players have and will never, ever touch (thanks in no due to part to some of the attitudes witnessed here). I don't even care about DPS numbers on anything that isn't a DPS class. These are exceptions and do not define the game as a whole.
I do, however, believe we should welcome anyone willing to play a healer and offer gentle advice should they need it, not harass them into submission for our own selfish desires. Not everyone learns in the same way or at the same pace; it has to do be done on that player's time or not at all.
People chastise me for not bothering to look up videos and the like for various encounters. That doesn't work for me in the slightest; it goes in one way and right out the other. The only way I'm able to master a game is by building that first-hand experience through trial and error as I've done for the past couple of decades. No amount of vitriol is going to change how my mind learns, end of story. The same goes for anyone else.
If situations such as those are somehow beyond your empathy and comprehension, then please do the entire community a favor by sticking with your pre-mades and not random pick-ups from duty finder. Everyone will be a lot happier this way. Promise.
I do, however, believe we should welcome anyone willing to play a healer and offer gentle advice should they need it, not harass them into submission for our own selfish desires. Not everyone learns in the same way or at the same pace; it has to do be done on that player's time or not at all.
People chastise me for not bothering to look up videos and the like for various encounters. That doesn't work for me in the slightest; it goes in one way and right out the other. The only way I'm able to master a game is by building that first-hand experience through trial and error as I've done for the past couple of decades. No amount of vitriol is going to change how my mind learns, end of story. The same goes for anyone else.
If situations such as those are somehow beyond your empathy and comprehension, then please do the entire community a favor by sticking with your pre-mades and not random pick-ups from duty finder. Everyone will be a lot happier this way. Promise.