I'll say this like it has been said in the other thread about which server to join:
Make a character on both worlds. Play them both a bit. Try meeting up with members of both communities ahead of time. Then make your decision. I think that you'll find that the community of Balmung isn't going to give you that worried feeling once you get to know them!
Make a character on both worlds. Play them both a bit. Try meeting up with members of both communities ahead of time. Then make your decision. I think that you'll find that the community of Balmung isn't going to give you that worried feeling once you get to know them!