Ultimate this argument is never going to go away so long as two servers and two communities exist in one space. The simple fact that we acknowledge that there are differences between the two servers, that we weigh pros and cons, means that anytime someone even mentions being unsure of which server they want to go to people will immediately jump to proclaim which server they think is better. None of us here can be unbiased, not completely. We can all sit here and grit our teeth and smile and say how much we want Gilgamesh to succeed... but I don't think that's 100% honest. I don't think anyone wants Gilgamesh to fail, but until recently Balmung was the primary home of RP at least for this chunk of the community, and ever person that goes over to Gilgamesh takes away from that once united community and furthers the divide. At the same time many people on Gilgamesh have let slip, even in small ways, that it's not about not wanting to be on our server, it's about not wanting to play with us. I've seen people accuse Balmung of having a pecking order, being elitists, saying stuff like "who wants to play with level 50s?" So the prejudice is definitely there.
In short, this argument won't go away because many people on Balmung resent players from pulling away from the community, even if they won't outright say it, and many of the people on Gilgamesh resent players on Balmung for being here first, even if they won't come out and say it. This of course is a generalization, so if it doesn't pertain to you or you disagree with me just assume I wasn't talking about you. I'm just saying what I've seen from both sides.
In short, this argument won't go away because many people on Balmung resent players from pulling away from the community, even if they won't outright say it, and many of the people on Gilgamesh resent players on Balmung for being here first, even if they won't come out and say it. This of course is a generalization, so if it doesn't pertain to you or you disagree with me just assume I wasn't talking about you. I'm just saying what I've seen from both sides.