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(07-07-2015, 05:21 AM)Meena Wrote: [ -> ]
(07-07-2015, 02:34 AM)Tancred Wrote: [ -> ]snip
Also, you can't just disregard things that happen in game. So what your 6'0 character can get pummeled by a 3'5 person. this is a fantasy game, the real world physics dont apply.

The lore has shown that lalafells are as strong as Hyur. Deal with it. But to simply acknowledge your character is inherently stronger due to size? that's a little dismissive.
Since this seems to be really hard for gritty players to get their heads around, I try to take a middle approach.

The disadvantage of reach isn't going anywhere, but speed can make up for that somewhat, as they canonically have a natural inclination towards dexterity. I figure a lala who has strength greater than that of a hyur either trains like crazy (A classic handwave, workhorse of thousands of stories) or there's something unnatural about them, whereas most are probably a bit weaker. I do agree that a super strong Lala should be distinctive and rare, because it makes my character more unique, lol. Still, I wouldn't get too deep into it.
(07-07-2015, 04:59 AM)Caspar Wrote: [ -> ]Forgive me for drawing this point out, but you did bring it up, and the argument has been done to death in the Grindstone threads. Suffice to say, since it invalidates the entire point of my charater's existence and others like it, I personally cannot abide it. So I mean, of course I'm pretty biased.

This is a world where fistfighters of sufficient skill can canonically fire laserbeams strong enough to lift them bodily off the ground and channel heat-seeking orbs of aether that explode on contact. (I'm going to hold Elixir Field and Forbidden Chakra over the grittier rpers forever, you can count on it...) A tiny person who hits hard shouldn't be much of a stretch. Give them the benefit of the doubt; not every lalafell player who approaches rp from this angle is unaware of how rare that kind of strength ought to be, to say nothing of its consequences. Some will recognize the disadvantage of reach, or understand that their character is effectively a freak for being able to put out the muscle power of a creature much larger than their size implies, and rp the side-effects, both physical and mental, of training to do so. Like becoming socially and educationally stunted due to monomaniacal focus on training, or losing, despite all their strength, due to rushing in heedlessly; my character has fallen victim to that countless times, despite being, on paper, way more dangerous than most. She's lost more than she's won, and that's done a lot of good things for her character development even as it damages her credibility. To me, experience should beat talent, but it'd be boring if every physically strong character was a roeg or highlander, honestly. To assume other races will lose is godmoding, and inconsistent with the setting to boot.

I think there ought be some nod to the disadvantages being short entails, but assuming they should lose just because of it before the fight even starts strikes me as a bit unfair. That being said, I agree it is wrong to assume everyone else is weaker. Generally the approach I take is, if they're more experienced, they win if they're creative enough to make up the gap in intensity of training; no amount of training from hell beats actual combat experience. Or I just /roll, because I always lose /roll, lol.

That aside, since you're looking at a wide gradient of believability, things not fitting into one's personal perception of believability is a pet peeve that is pretty easy to understand. The game and setting itself are at odds with our physics and your sense of realism, so you're going to see a lot of people doing all kinds of crazy stuff. I find it funny that a lot of people are willing to accept the existence of magic and aether, but cannot wrap their head around a person of slight build fighting equally with a person who easily dwarfs them in height and baraness, but these are separate aesthetic concepts that don't mix easily; the martial and magical have been held to inconsistent standards even as far back as the earliest editions of D&D, and fantasy has suffered for it. But that's not going to change the fact that people who go into the game looking to play a hero with a certain aesthetic, especially the low fantasy kind, are going to run into annoying inconsistencies. It is difficult to reconcile their view of what should be possible amongst martial archetypes with those of someone who took to Eastern fantasy, where people are driven mad by reading martial arts' scrolls backwards, fly over rooftops, bore perfect holes in your skull from a distance and handle swords with masterful precision using nothing but ribbons. You can fire lasers and block bullets? What is a gunner going to do, or a non-magical archer? It's things like that which can really damage immersion for a specific kind of player, one way or another, if not handled carefully, and I understand it can be frustrating both ways. It's for this reason that I think it pays to have a very flexible idea of what to do in a scene that matches the mood or general grittiness of the environment. If people want to do stuff in a very mundane way, players shouldn't be afraid to craft excuses to make things more low key, or just handwave it so that the scene stays consistent and feels right.

No, this is fair. I get what you're saying. I'd like to clarify though, I don't mean to poop on lalafell warrior types. If that's the way you want to play your character, go for it. I do, however, think that the disadvantage from lack of reach should be accounted for.

An experienced lalafell warrior would know about it, and be able to deal with it, but it is still there. Reach is not a physical limitation that was negated by "oh, well it's fantasy" even if strength and skill are. I think it should still be addressed.

That isn't to say that, if my character is 6'6 and yours is 3'2, I will win 100% of the time, but the advantage is clear, and the smaller character should have to work around it. The smaller character may know exactly what they're doing and they may win decisively, but that shouldn't be the case ten times out of ten. Like you said, it should come down to experience.

No, my biggest issue wasn't with small characters completely handwaving how strength works in the real world, though I did make it seem that way with my examples, it was really more aimed toward people who, in an emoted combat scenario, will always disregard whoever they're RPing with in an attempt to be Billy Badass and win every fight with cool kid dagger tricks. No RPer should assume that their character is the strongest or the most skilled or the most experienced in present company. I RP a Highlander who has been wielding a variety of melee weapons for over two decades. He's strong, he's big, he's experienced, he's intelligent, and he's even surprisingly agile based on the short stories I've written on him (in the style of Robert E. Howard's "Conan the Cimmerian" or Edgar Rice Burroughs's "Tarzan of the Apes"), but even with all of those advantages I have given him for the sake of good adventure stories, I never just plainly assume no one around can beat Tancred in a fight, and I get angry when others do that with their characters.

It's not because I think I'm the best RPer in the world or something and need to ironically show off my humility, I just think that everyone loves their character as much as I do and we share a world where we're all our own protagonists. No one character should be able to beat all others in a fight. There's always a bigger fish.

I know that sounds hypocritical with my rant about how smaller characters are weaker than bigger ones, but that is just me speaking in generalities. If I walk into a group of strange RPers, and I want to know who Tancred would single out as the biggest threat, I look for the biggest guy or girl in the room. Could a lalafell or a miqo'te possibly beat Tancred in a fight? Certainly. But with smaller races, I think a bit more explanation is required to convey how they could from a logical standpoint. I hope that's making sense. It is 5:30 in the morning here...
Characters who ICly raid through Castrum and Imperial complexes solo like it's nothing.
Fighting primals solo like it's nothing.
Defeating Ultima Weapon like it's nothing.
Soloing Coil like it's nothing.
Doman RPers calling everyone senpai or sama or speaking Japanese saying hello like "herro" which I find really disturbing as Yugiri speaks English (or whatever language you have it set to) perfectly.
Being from another dimension as if you've put on Oculus Rift and warped into the game.
Changing name or killing off your character every few weeks.

*looks for another grumpy list in the meantime*
(07-07-2015, 06:03 AM)Flynn Rosenberg Wrote: [ -> ]Doman RPers calling everyone senpai or sama or speaking Japanese saying hello like "herro" which I find really disturbing as Yugiri speaks English (or whatever language you have it set to) perfectly.

THIS SO VERY MUCH HOLY SHIT THANK YOU
That "herro" shit is also super racist.

Lately, my biggest peeve is people ignoring my personal story in favor of theirs. I'm not being unreasonable here - if we've RPed your crap for two hours, is it really so unthinkable that I might like to turn the story to deal with my own character for awhile? I'm not just a supporting character in your story, I'm also the main character of mine.

I'm tired of seeing people extricate themselves from RP just because the story isn't about them anymore.
(07-07-2015, 06:08 AM)Mamushi Wrote: [ -> ]
(07-07-2015, 06:03 AM)Flynn Rosenberg Wrote: [ -> ]Doman RPers calling everyone senpai or sama or speaking Japanese saying hello like "herro" which I find really disturbing as Yugiri speaks English (or whatever language you have it set to) perfectly.

THIS SO VERY MUCH HOLY SHIT THANK YOU
But In japanese she speaks japanese jk.

In all seriousness, I rolled my character before we had any Doman lore, nor met any NPCs. So since lore has been added i've adjusted. Those whom I roleplay with however I do try and persuade them to mimic NPC dialogue if possible.

Knowledge is power. ^^
(07-07-2015, 02:34 AM)Tancred Wrote: [ -> ]when everyone else is RPing Jesus of Nazareth.

*Looks at quote*

*Looks at avatar*

"Everyone else"... eh?

I'm on to you.

Tongue
More an ooc thing but...

People with 'walk-up friendly' in their tag but are assholes when you try.
My RP pet peeve is boredom.

No joke, you'd be amazed how many people who write in RP can't write.  And it's really hard, especially when you play with people you like, to stomach a boring character.  By that I don't mean going the Mary Sue route either.

Your character is supposed to be a person and a person is supposed to have a personality.  They should have a way of talking and acting.  And it's not their fighting style, but whether they light a cigarette with matches or a lighter, if they're sarcastic or poignant, righteous or apathetic.  A character should be, of all thing, unique.

So when I'm sitting in a bar watching eight people sulk and blurt out the same story about their parents' murder, it's not that they're all the same that bothers me, but that I can't tell them apart.

Short answer, a good RP character can talk about the weather and engage you, while a weak one can talk about the end of the world and make you wish it was really coming.  And there's nothing worse in all of the RP world than a weak, boring, beige-room of a character.
(07-07-2015, 09:16 AM)ArmachiA Wrote: [ -> ]*Looks at quote*

*Looks at avatar*

"Everyone else"... eh?

I'm on to you.

Tongue

Oh no! My secret's out!

Quick! To the Fantasia depository!
"Oh, my character isn't a lalafell IC.  It's a Hyur child."

Please don't do this.
(07-08-2015, 07:04 AM)Lilia Lia Wrote: [ -> ]"Oh, my character isn't a lalafell IC.  It's a Hyur child."

Please don't do this.

^This. We've seen Hyur/Miqo'te/Elezen kids in-story and they look NOTHING like lalas, it would be like if I said a midlander male was a roegadyn child. Just takes whatever immersion I had and atomic-suplexes it.
People who obviously want to RP for the sake of ERP, and try to shroud their interest by "involving" their characters in your plot, only to walk away if you don't give them what they want. While having a flirty character tends to lure these kinds of people, this doesn't mean she spreads her legs for every passerby. Pretending to be "genuinely" interested in my character, only to frequently pester me about  the possibility of romance/erp between them isn't going to take you far. 

Does this mean she would never romance other characters or get involved intimately? No, but people must understand that what you say OOC isn't going to do shit IC. I don't care how much you /tell me that our characters would be "so good together and they should totally date," show me. IC relationships take IC effort to build, she won't magically land on your character's dick because they said "hello" once and you are telling me how "kewl n sexy" your character is OOC.
Just reading through the last few posts I think this is less a "pet peeve" thread and more a general grousing thread about things we encounter in RP that we don't like.  Either that or people don't really understand what a "pet peeve" is.

A pet peeve is a MINOR annoyance that other people generally find acceptable that personally irritates an individual to a greater degree than others.  I don't really consider god-moding, blatantly ignoring people, or sexual harassment (IC or OOC) all that minor.  XP

Perhaps this ought to be renamed to the "Roleplay Venting Thread" instead.  XD
Not sure it really counts as a ''pet peeve'' since it's one of those obvious annoyances that pretty much everyone agrees with, but it's what happened mostly with me on other MMO's.

It's been mentioned before. The whole IC interest in someone transferring over towards OOC. And then it gets to a point where the people will get all anime desu desu on you and sent you hugs for no reason and get very clingy.

Further I have a pet peeve about myself, which kinda only applies here in FF for now. I am admittedly a little bit of an elitist. I don't shun or ignore people or anything, but I always want to strive for a perfect lore-accurate story. Seeing as I am new to roleplay on FF.. I'm an ignorant little noob, which I can't stand in the slightest.

This kinda goes hand in hand when a lot of people say; ''It's fine, you should do what you want, nobody is gonna mind'' when I -want- them to criticize me to death.
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