Unfortunately, until everyone plays nice like that, the behavior will persist. No one wants to get screwed repeatedly out of something they want for glamour because people who don't need it for anything other than seals or desynthesis keep rolling Need on it.
What I've found works really well is to ask at the start of the instance if you need stuff. A simple "hey, all of the <class> gear here is an upgrade for me, would you mind if I have it if it drops?" goes a long way. I've never actually seen anyone turn that request down, and I run a lot of instances.
What I've found works really well is to ask at the start of the instance if you need stuff. A simple "hey, all of the <class> gear here is an upgrade for me, would you mind if I have it if it drops?" goes a long way. I've never actually seen anyone turn that request down, and I run a lot of instances.
The Freelance Wizard
Quality RP at low, low prices!
((about me | about L'yhta Mahre | L'yhta's desk | about Mysterium, the Ivory Tower: a heavy RP society of mages))
Quality RP at low, low prices!
((about me | about L'yhta Mahre | L'yhta's desk | about Mysterium, the Ivory Tower: a heavy RP society of mages))