Here's what I would want anyone who's trying to be involved with the creation of such a community to ask themself:
If moving away from my home server was what it would take to create a stable alternative community, for the good of every roleplayer outside Balmung, would I do it?
I'm not saying that such necessarily is what it will take; I'm asking folks to ask themselves what their priorities are. I also don't think it's a bad thing for someone to be proud of something they've made, or to want to continue how things were, especially in what's ultimately a hobby... but that is different than wanting to do something that's "best for everyone", and it's important to recognise that difference.
If moving away from my home server was what it would take to create a stable alternative community, for the good of every roleplayer outside Balmung, would I do it?
I'm not saying that such necessarily is what it will take; I'm asking folks to ask themselves what their priorities are. I also don't think it's a bad thing for someone to be proud of something they've made, or to want to continue how things were, especially in what's ultimately a hobby... but that is different than wanting to do something that's "best for everyone", and it's important to recognise that difference.