
My advice: if someone is looking for RP that you can't provide them due to it not being what you like/what you're looking for in RP, don't take it to mean you are doing something wrong. You have your preferences and your goals, as do they (obviously). When they realize that you are not what they're after and part ways, don't take it personally! Simply wish them well in their hunt and continue your own.
 That's what I do! This applies to the romance aspect, character ppersonalities meshing (only certain kinds of characters get along with other kinds, not everyone can get along IC), etc!
