
(04-17-2015, 09:35 AM)Warren Castille Wrote: ERP is a lot like sex in real life: You really should only do it with people you trust.
Quoting this for max truth. Typically if someone asks me if I ERP, I'll tell them no (at least, if I think they are interested in ERP with me). I'm not meaning to lie or be a hypocrite, however, the list of people I would be willing to ERP with is very small. Unfortunately, as important as we've stressed consent and communication are here, a lot of people still try to headbutt their way into ERP no matter what the other person involved wants. All too often "I don't want to ERP right now" or "I don't want to ERP with you" is seen as a challenge to convince or seduce. Sadly, I've found anything but a firm "No, I don't ERP at all" doesn't deter an unfortunately large amount of people.