
(06-14-2015, 03:11 PM)Warren Castille Wrote:(06-14-2015, 03:02 PM)Rahal Wrote: "I don't believe this happened and you must have done something to make it your fault!" Is all I'm getting from this post. Sorry but have you any idea now very condescending and rude what you just said is?
if you want me to violate the forum ToS and name and shame that's one thing. If you genuinely believe that harassment is the fault of the person getting said harassment? That is another thing entirely that I have no words for.
That's not what's happening here. Your experiences aren't the norm.
Also, do you have any idea how condescending and rude it is for you to write off an entire RP hub as a "hive of scum and Star Wars references?" That does an excellent job of making people who choose to RP there feel like shit, you know.
^ This. Your experiences are not common, or at least are a far cry from mine and those of most people I know. I'm just wondering if you are just genuinely unlucky, if you are exaggerating (you'll have to excuse me for thinking this a possibility after you called the main RP hotspot " a wretched hive of scum of villainy" based off a few very personal experiences), or if you're doing something to provoke this sort of behavior to receive it so much more often than others. If something unpleasant happens to you more often than it does others, rather than externalize the blame, it's wise to do some introspection.
Maybe you really are just unfortunate and happen to attract all the weirdos each time you go to the Quicksand for no logical reason. I don't really know one way or the other. Either way, I did not at all ask for names or detailed accounts of what happened, only wondered at how often these negative experiences really occurred.