OP, thanks so much for this thread. I'm really glad I'm not the only one. I usually play healers in MMOs. But sometimes I take things so seriously and worry if I mess up in a dungeon that makes me a horrible player. And in this game, where a lot of PUGs demand perfection, I used to make myself sick over it and I almost let those bad wipes chase me out of the game. But the best thing I did was take a time out to explore other classes.
I absolutely fell in love with the Rogue/Ninja class and am having a blast. It was never a class that was at the top of my list when I started playing but I'm glad I decided to give it a go. Something about it just clicked with me. I find I'm more confident in groups and enjoy dungeons a heck of a lot more. That's not to say I won't one day pick up the healer again but sometimes the best thing is just a change of perspective. It's not a failure to take some time to find your niche.
I absolutely fell in love with the Rogue/Ninja class and am having a blast. It was never a class that was at the top of my list when I started playing but I'm glad I decided to give it a go. Something about it just clicked with me. I find I'm more confident in groups and enjoy dungeons a heck of a lot more. That's not to say I won't one day pick up the healer again but sometimes the best thing is just a change of perspective. It's not a failure to take some time to find your niche.