
Ultimately it's about agency. As players, we shouldn't ever feel like we don't have agency over our characters. Obviously we don't want to abuse that agency - if I play a criminal who flaunts his crimes yet always says OOCly "Sorry, I'm not willing to be arrested", no one will want to RP with me.
The commonly accepted precept from conflict RP of "roleplay the action, let your target roleplay the result" applies here.
The commonly accepted precept from conflict RP of "roleplay the action, let your target roleplay the result" applies here.