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RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict |
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01-30-2014, 10:43 PM
(This post was last modified: 01-30-2014, 10:43 PM by Renee Becquerel.)
(01-30-2014, 10:19 PM)Natalie Mcbeef Wrote: On a side note, because I think people might be curious as to what the fuck I'm actually talking about with this whole thing, here is a text log from me explaining the story to someone else. It is pretty much 100% accurate to the best of my knowledge, and the OOC disagreement occurred when I was carried off to jail and managed to make my way off.

The Log is here

Unfortunately I don't have a log of the actual events, I forgot to save it, but this should help give an idea to the curious. Please don't use this to nitpick details though.
Ok, I'm really not trying to place blame anywhere because, by your own account, it sounds like an issue where different people made different mistakes, but you're no longer really respecting the privacy of the other person involved in this after a certain point (i.e. after you've posted a screenshot of their character and chat logs which you didn't fully edit their name out of).

It is entirely possibly this is just me, but focusing on the specifics of who did what as opposed to what lead to what happened isn't so much trying to actually make this a learning experience but instead making someone other than you into the bad guy so you can feel absolved of your part in it.

Personally, I don't really think this is a situation that needs to be dug so deep, or else it has the scent of calling someone out. It seems a little tasteless.
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Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 01:09 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 01:45 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Whittledown - 01-30-2014, 01:49 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kiterina - 01-30-2014, 01:55 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Flickering Ember - 01-30-2014, 02:04 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 02:40 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Illira - 01-30-2014, 02:57 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by FreelanceWizard - 01-30-2014, 03:26 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Roen - 01-30-2014, 02:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Erik Mynhier - 01-30-2014, 03:05 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 03:14 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Erik Mynhier - 01-30-2014, 03:27 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 03:16 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 03:28 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 03:41 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 03:55 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-30-2014, 03:59 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 04:06 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Illira - 01-30-2014, 04:49 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 03:10 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LandStander - 01-30-2014, 03:11 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by No Longer Exists - 01-30-2014, 04:01 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 04:17 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Roen - 01-30-2014, 04:24 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gabineaux - 01-30-2014, 04:58 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Illira - 01-30-2014, 05:11 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gabineaux - 01-30-2014, 05:17 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 05:32 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 06:02 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Whittledown - 01-30-2014, 06:16 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 06:29 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Whittledown - 01-30-2014, 06:37 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 06:31 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 06:48 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 06:57 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 07:08 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 07:30 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 07:34 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by FreelanceWizard - 01-30-2014, 08:17 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-30-2014, 09:45 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Illira - 01-30-2014, 05:39 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 05:43 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 01-30-2014, 06:35 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 01-30-2014, 06:37 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 06:40 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Sophia_Grave - 01-30-2014, 06:45 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 01-30-2014, 06:46 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Maril - 01-30-2014, 07:02 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 01-30-2014, 07:48 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 07:59 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Almil - 01-31-2014, 06:24 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 08:05 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 08:11 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 08:13 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 08:12 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 01-30-2014, 08:31 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 08:52 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 01-30-2014, 09:14 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 09:18 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 09:21 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 09:22 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 09:25 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gharen - 01-30-2014, 08:41 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 08:51 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 08:55 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 09:00 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renee Becquerel - 01-30-2014, 09:21 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 09:35 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 01-30-2014, 09:27 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 10:19 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renee Becquerel - 01-30-2014, 10:43 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 10:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 01-30-2014, 11:14 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gabineaux - 01-30-2014, 11:28 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 11:35 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 11:36 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gabineaux - 01-30-2014, 11:44 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Roen - 01-31-2014, 01:41 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 01-31-2014, 06:35 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ashscarred - 01-31-2014, 09:10 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Musemi - 01-31-2014, 11:56 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-31-2014, 12:21 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 12:29 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-31-2014, 01:02 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Musemi - 01-31-2014, 01:20 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Steel Wolf - 01-31-2014, 12:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 01:09 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-31-2014, 01:13 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 01:33 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-31-2014, 01:51 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ashscarred - 01-31-2014, 01:57 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Rook - 01-31-2014, 06:46 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 06:58 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LiadansWhisper - 01-31-2014, 07:03 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 09:52 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 01-31-2014, 02:31 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 01-31-2014, 02:46 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LiadansWhisper - 01-31-2014, 03:36 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Steel Wolf - 01-31-2014, 03:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-31-2014, 04:47 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 01-31-2014, 03:47 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Caelia - 01-31-2014, 04:59 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ilwe'ran - 01-31-2014, 07:21 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Clover - 01-31-2014, 07:24 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 01-31-2014, 10:13 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LiadansWhisper - 01-31-2014, 11:11 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 02-01-2014, 12:23 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Clover - 02-01-2014, 05:17 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by TheLastCandle - 02-01-2014, 12:41 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 02-01-2014, 06:07 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 02-01-2014, 12:27 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by FreelanceWizard - 02-01-2014, 03:43 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 02-01-2014, 04:33 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 02-01-2014, 05:20 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 02-01-2014, 05:26 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LiadansWhisper - 02-01-2014, 09:30 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 02-01-2014, 09:45 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by synaesthetic - 02-01-2014, 04:51 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 02-01-2014, 05:22 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 02-01-2014, 05:28 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 02-01-2014, 05:35 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 02-01-2014, 05:43 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Musemi - 02-02-2014, 02:06 AM
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RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by FreelanceWizard - 02-01-2014, 10:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 02-01-2014, 11:28 PM

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