(01-30-2014, 10:43 PM)Renaud Becquerel Wrote:(01-30-2014, 10:19 PM)Natalie Mcbeef Wrote: On a side note, because I think people might be curious as to what the fuck I'm actually talking about with this whole thing, here is a text log from me explaining the story to someone else. It is pretty much 100% accurate to the best of my knowledge, and the OOC disagreement occurred when I was carried off to jail and managed to make my way off.Ok, I'm really not trying to place blame anywhere because, by your own account, it sounds like an issue where different people made different mistakes, but you're no longer really respecting the privacy of the other person involved in this after a certain point (i.e. after you've posted a screenshot of their character and chat logs which you didn't fully edit their name out of).
The Log is here
Unfortunately I don't have a log of the actual events, I forgot to save it, but this should help give an idea to the curious. Please don't use this to nitpick details though.
It is entirely possibly this is just me, but focusing on the specifics of who did what as opposed to what lead to what happened isn't so much trying to actually make this a learning experience but instead making someone other than you into the bad guy so you can feel absolved of your part in it.
Personally, I don't really think this is a situation that needs to be dug so deep, or else it has the scent of calling someone out. It seems a little tasteless.
All the people whose names are mentioned in that Chat log have no problem with it, I didn't refer to the other person, I just referred to them as the flame. I don't have any problem with what the person did, I ended up resolving it, but I wanted to get peoples opinions on how to resolve it better in the future. I got lots of good info, so I think the thread was useful. However quite a few people seemed to be misunderstanding what happened, and I thought the scene itself was cool, so I posted a summary.
I didn't intend to call the person out, and as I've said several times, I thought they made the whole situation much more dramatic and interesting. It was only at that one point our view of the situation veered off, which I think was unfortunate.
If people think this is supposed to be a call out (I didn't intend it to be) then I can delete that link and close the thread. It's just that 3-4 people in this thread were actually there, so I thought that the people who weren't might like an Idea about what the rest of use were talking about.
Edit: I just also want to say that after reading the thread I realize I was just as much at fault as the other person was, and I need to be proactive about these sort of things in the future, and think more about the settings I RP in.
