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RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict |
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01-31-2014, 11:56 AM
I kind of have a problem with anyone who appoints themselves lawman and expects it to be publicly accepted. Basically, you are appointing yourself GM over someone else's character(s) without those players prior consent. You are not GM over Balmung, or Gilgamesh, and should not assume such authority.

Just because someone is rping in public, does not give you the right to take control of the scene. YOU ARE ENTERING THEIR STORY, they are not entering yours. There is no such thing as a 'global' Eorzean story, in which your character's authority is absolute. There would simply be too many conflicting inconsistencies amongst all the micro-canons that exist.

Instead, dial back your character and concede control of the scene to the players whose scene you are joining. You are a player in their scenario, not a GM. That means you can suggest and perform actions, but cannot directly control the environment, or what happens to their characters. The decision of what happens to them in relation to your actions rests solely on them. Remember, you chose to enter their story, not the other way around.

OOCly of course, you may ask if you can GM the scene and assume control, but they as players still have a right to opt out if you prove to be a poor GM (as in not leaving any outs, as someone else alluded to).

This is not tabletop rp, where the law of dice decides whether Nat's charcter gets to escape or not,. Without this universal, agreed upon system, you must allow the authors decide the outcome of their characters fates, unless otherwise explicitly agreed upon beforehand. To automatically assume control of the scene makes you an rp bully.
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Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 01:09 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 01:45 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Whittledown - 01-30-2014, 01:49 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kiterina - 01-30-2014, 01:55 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Flickering Ember - 01-30-2014, 02:04 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 02:40 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Illira - 01-30-2014, 02:57 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by FreelanceWizard - 01-30-2014, 03:26 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Roen - 01-30-2014, 02:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Erik Mynhier - 01-30-2014, 03:05 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 03:14 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Erik Mynhier - 01-30-2014, 03:27 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 03:16 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 03:28 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 03:41 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 03:55 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-30-2014, 03:59 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 04:06 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Illira - 01-30-2014, 04:49 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 03:10 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LandStander - 01-30-2014, 03:11 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by No Longer Exists - 01-30-2014, 04:01 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 04:17 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Roen - 01-30-2014, 04:24 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gabineaux - 01-30-2014, 04:58 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Illira - 01-30-2014, 05:11 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gabineaux - 01-30-2014, 05:17 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 05:32 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 06:02 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Whittledown - 01-30-2014, 06:16 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 06:29 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Whittledown - 01-30-2014, 06:37 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 06:31 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 06:48 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 06:57 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 07:08 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 07:30 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 07:34 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by FreelanceWizard - 01-30-2014, 08:17 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-30-2014, 09:45 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Illira - 01-30-2014, 05:39 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 05:43 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 01-30-2014, 06:35 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 01-30-2014, 06:37 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 06:40 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Sophia_Grave - 01-30-2014, 06:45 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 01-30-2014, 06:46 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Maril - 01-30-2014, 07:02 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 01-30-2014, 07:48 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 07:59 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Almil - 01-31-2014, 06:24 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 08:05 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 08:11 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 08:13 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 08:12 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 01-30-2014, 08:31 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 08:52 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 01-30-2014, 09:14 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 09:18 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 09:21 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Syl Souther - 01-30-2014, 09:22 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 09:25 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gharen - 01-30-2014, 08:41 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 08:51 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-30-2014, 08:55 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 09:00 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renee Becquerel - 01-30-2014, 09:21 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Val - 01-30-2014, 09:35 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 01-30-2014, 09:27 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 10:19 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renee Becquerel - 01-30-2014, 10:43 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 10:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 01-30-2014, 11:14 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gabineaux - 01-30-2014, 11:28 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 01-30-2014, 11:35 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-30-2014, 11:36 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Gabineaux - 01-30-2014, 11:44 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Roen - 01-31-2014, 01:41 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 01-31-2014, 06:35 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ashscarred - 01-31-2014, 09:10 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Musemi - 01-31-2014, 11:56 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-31-2014, 12:21 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 12:29 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-31-2014, 01:02 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Musemi - 01-31-2014, 01:20 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Steel Wolf - 01-31-2014, 12:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 01:09 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-31-2014, 01:13 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 01:33 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 01-31-2014, 01:51 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ashscarred - 01-31-2014, 01:57 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Rook - 01-31-2014, 06:46 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 06:58 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LiadansWhisper - 01-31-2014, 07:03 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 01-31-2014, 09:52 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 01-31-2014, 02:31 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 01-31-2014, 02:46 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LiadansWhisper - 01-31-2014, 03:36 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Steel Wolf - 01-31-2014, 03:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by C'kayah Polaali - 01-31-2014, 04:47 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 01-31-2014, 03:47 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Caelia - 01-31-2014, 04:59 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ilwe'ran - 01-31-2014, 07:21 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Clover - 01-31-2014, 07:24 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 01-31-2014, 10:13 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LiadansWhisper - 01-31-2014, 11:11 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 02-01-2014, 12:23 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Clover - 02-01-2014, 05:17 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by TheLastCandle - 02-01-2014, 12:41 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by McBeefâ„¢ - 02-01-2014, 06:07 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Aldotsk - 02-01-2014, 12:27 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by FreelanceWizard - 02-01-2014, 03:43 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 02-01-2014, 04:33 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 02-01-2014, 05:20 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 02-01-2014, 05:26 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LiadansWhisper - 02-01-2014, 09:30 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Renault Delumiere - 02-01-2014, 09:45 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by synaesthetic - 02-01-2014, 04:51 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 02-01-2014, 05:22 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Kage - 02-01-2014, 05:28 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Naunet - 02-01-2014, 05:35 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by ArmachiA - 02-01-2014, 05:43 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Musemi - 02-02-2014, 02:06 AM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by TheLastCandle - 02-01-2014, 09:53 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Seriphyn - 02-01-2014, 10:31 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by LiadansWhisper - 02-01-2014, 10:46 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Seriphyn - 02-01-2014, 11:07 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by FreelanceWizard - 02-01-2014, 10:50 PM
RE: Seeking advice on dealing with conflict - by Ildur - 02-01-2014, 11:28 PM

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