It's an uncool situation you got into Natalie.
I will not repeat what the other people said about respect and talking OOCly with people that interfere in YOUR plot while they have nothing to do with it.
I completly agree that anything looking like slavery, rape, death, captivity have to be accepted beforehand by the victim.
People talked a lot about surprise and I do some surprises as well. But with my partner only because I know him, I know what he wouldn't like and I can respect his character even if I sometimes push him onto some limits (beside, we talk OOCly, checking if everything is alright).
I don't agree with the idea that you should RP in party when you're RPing something "sensible" (unless ERP of course). Before interfering on some sensible situation (like what happened to you yesterday), people outside the plot should think five minutes to consider the consequences for the one they will RP with. I can understand the fact he wanted to fit to his character, but sometimes, to not destroy some other RPer pleasure, better act as if you didn't read anything.
Beside, if at any point, any moment, you feel uncomfortable or forced to something. You HAVE to stop the situation OOCly and not waiting a point you cannot stand it anymore. And if the one that RP with you doesn't listen to you, it just means that it's time for you to go away and ignore that person that doesn't respect you as a RPer and only want some selfish RP pleasure.
Never ignore your own feelings. That's the most important and even if you end to scratch someone else pride, you have to say when you're not feeling good IRL about some IC situation. It's RP, it's suppose to be fun, not something you have to endure.
I will not repeat what the other people said about respect and talking OOCly with people that interfere in YOUR plot while they have nothing to do with it.
I completly agree that anything looking like slavery, rape, death, captivity have to be accepted beforehand by the victim.
People talked a lot about surprise and I do some surprises as well. But with my partner only because I know him, I know what he wouldn't like and I can respect his character even if I sometimes push him onto some limits (beside, we talk OOCly, checking if everything is alright).
I don't agree with the idea that you should RP in party when you're RPing something "sensible" (unless ERP of course). Before interfering on some sensible situation (like what happened to you yesterday), people outside the plot should think five minutes to consider the consequences for the one they will RP with. I can understand the fact he wanted to fit to his character, but sometimes, to not destroy some other RPer pleasure, better act as if you didn't read anything.
Beside, if at any point, any moment, you feel uncomfortable or forced to something. You HAVE to stop the situation OOCly and not waiting a point you cannot stand it anymore. And if the one that RP with you doesn't listen to you, it just means that it's time for you to go away and ignore that person that doesn't respect you as a RPer and only want some selfish RP pleasure.
Never ignore your own feelings. That's the most important and even if you end to scratch someone else pride, you have to say when you're not feeling good IRL about some IC situation. It's RP, it's suppose to be fun, not something you have to endure.
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