As someone that had to join up with an already established raid group to do Coil, etc., due to my own limitations in how much I could play in comparison to my compatriots (*waves to Naunet*) and subsequently how fast I was able to get up to tanking gear requirements, I do completely understand where you're coming from Kage.
It can be really intimidating to ask and jump-in on a group that has already found its rhythm and isn't really looking for/needing anyone else. But if the group is made up of people that enjoy your company and want to run things with you, it hopefully shouldn't be a burden for them to take you on and engage in some swappage.
I would address the raid lead directly asking if they can make a place for you to swap in for a turn or two, to get you started in BC, as they'll likely have the most definitive answer. I imagine getting a firm answer would be helpful for you to figure out how best to proceed, as you sound like your still a little unsure whether or not the can/will take you on.
Your gear looks fine to start BC off with, though replacing your hat with some DL would be good, since you still look to have an i55 equipped there. Its important to remember though that the gear requirements for non-tanks are don't tend to be nearly as harsh. And in getting the opportunity to run the first couple turns of BC, you'll hopefully get the chance to gear up on some Allagan, which would help your gear level as you continue to work on getting the myth you need for other slots (its good to have a BiS plan so that you can prioritize your picks more easily).
It can be really intimidating to ask and jump-in on a group that has already found its rhythm and isn't really looking for/needing anyone else. But if the group is made up of people that enjoy your company and want to run things with you, it hopefully shouldn't be a burden for them to take you on and engage in some swappage.
I would address the raid lead directly asking if they can make a place for you to swap in for a turn or two, to get you started in BC, as they'll likely have the most definitive answer. I imagine getting a firm answer would be helpful for you to figure out how best to proceed, as you sound like your still a little unsure whether or not the can/will take you on.
Your gear looks fine to start BC off with, though replacing your hat with some DL would be good, since you still look to have an i55 equipped there. Its important to remember though that the gear requirements for non-tanks are don't tend to be nearly as harsh. And in getting the opportunity to run the first couple turns of BC, you'll hopefully get the chance to gear up on some Allagan, which would help your gear level as you continue to work on getting the myth you need for other slots (its good to have a BiS plan so that you can prioritize your picks more easily).