(09-29-2016, 11:24 AM)Gegenji Wrote: Yeah, not bothering people is one of the major hangups for me and a few other folks I know too. "Ah, don't want to bother you, so lemme know when you wanna RP." That single mindset reflecting back and forth leads to a lot of indecision. XDOooo that would work haha! I only have her at level 15-16 at the moment and she's currently in Limsa so yeah ; u ; If you don't mind o/ It'd be nice to set up something whether it's in in-game or forum haha. Though forum's much easier for me though cos of my timezone... +8 UTC > x >
And having them bump into each other shouldn't be too hard if we can pick a time or whatnot. Level is nice, but I've done RP on alts that are still only level 15. Imagination and coordination allows for a lot of stuff to be hand-waved.
(09-29-2016, 11:42 AM)SicketySix Wrote: I used to use the "Hey lemme know when you want to RP sometime" and always thought I was doing them a favor, until someone did it to me and I took it as "Hey I'm busy now so let me know some other time" lol.Oh yeah. Definitely this. Though I'd understand more if they were AFK but if they weren't and they just don't wish to RP with me, then that's a worse blow for me haha xD
So now I just get straight to the point. Occasionally I'll send a tell if I don't see an emote or some sort of sign from them in awhile, just to make sure they are not afk. I think one thing that intimidates a lot of new Rpers is when they walk up and get no response. That usually causes a lot of self doubt and feelings of rejection when more then likely the player is currently afk.
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