Wow, quite the introduction! Sadly I'm at work and a tad pressed for time, but welcome to the community and we're glad to see a duo coming in. It always makes for the most interesting RP when two people are basically in the same thought realm from the get-go!
As for FC, I'm sure that one exists that is perfect for the two of you! The list is at the top in a tab called LINKSHELLS (Don't ask) and you can even sort the server by Balmung with the click of that one button marked as such. Most of the FC are monitored by the staff here to ensure that old entries are removed, so rest assured if you find one to your liking, it is most likely available in the game. Minus Aeon, which is going to an invitation-only model soon.
As for FC, I'm sure that one exists that is perfect for the two of you! The list is at the top in a tab called LINKSHELLS (Don't ask) and you can even sort the server by Balmung with the click of that one button marked as such. Most of the FC are monitored by the staff here to ensure that old entries are removed, so rest assured if you find one to your liking, it is most likely available in the game. Minus Aeon, which is going to an invitation-only model soon.