In those situations though the only ones that I'd really feel bad about is the fiance bit. I don't necessarily feel bad for the characters involved, but anytime I take a spy away, or if there's an ERPer who wants to make someone their pet and I step in and make the pet the hunter and totally disrupt their plans, I almost feel bad for the other people because sometimes weeks if not months of effort and work goes into that and I am very very good at persuading character's to see things my character's way, so very rarely has he not gotten his intended goal eventually.
"Don't be scared homie."
