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RE: Difficult to fit in. |
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11-18-2015, 03:01 PM
Here's the ugly truth about getting into your rp groove:

it's networking.

1) You have to be in the right place at the right time for walk-up rp. That means attending events, and either having your character directly interacting with others or manipulating your surroundings to enable rp (utilizing objects, npcs, or actions that directly interact with multiple characters or encourage direct interaction -- for example I've had zhi have a coughing fit while drinking that sprayed alcohol all over someone).

2) OOC communication. No, you don't have to, but it dramatically increases your chances. This means talking to people about their characters, about plots, about their rp.

Do not talk about your rp unless asked or you're trying to figure out an opening scene/plot. Why? Because if you want to engage someone, you need to show them that you are interested in their character. Plus, people like to talk about their creations. It makes people feel good to know someone is interested.

"Hey, your character's [trait, backstory, whatever -- the more specific the better] is [positive thing]. I'd really like to rp with you sometime, would you be open to that? I can give you information about my character if you're interested"

"Hey that rp you did [specifics] was [positive thing]! I'd love to rp with you sometime if you're available!"

Keep in mind there are a good chunk of people who do have a lot of rp on their plate or are busy and have to schedule their rp -- don't be discouraged if they don't have time or it doesn't work out.

Look for: new people.
Making connections.
Recent updates in the wiki (pm the player on the rpc if you like their page)
People who say they wish they had more rp
FCs or LSs that fit your style



NOTE: not every character meshes, not every player meshes. Don't take it personally if the rp fizzles. Try again. Eventually you'll find rp partners or a rp group. I've had plenty of rejections when I've looked for rp, but I've also found some phenomenal people and had some phenomenal rp.

I have a three-shot rule with people I don't know, too. If we are trying to schedule rp and it doesn't work out, or I send them a message and they don't reply, I try two more times. After that, I move on to someone else.

Best!

Zhavi Streetrunner
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Difficult to fit in. - by DanteScaeva - 11-18-2015, 02:26 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Cailean Lockwood - 11-18-2015, 02:33 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Leggerless - 11-18-2015, 02:34 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Kasumi - 11-18-2015, 02:36 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Teadrinker - 11-18-2015, 02:36 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Zhavi - 11-18-2015, 02:43 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by DanteScaeva - 11-18-2015, 02:46 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 11-18-2015, 02:48 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Scaraphae - 11-18-2015, 02:48 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by DoomsdayClock - 11-18-2015, 02:52 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Zhavi - 11-18-2015, 03:01 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by DanteScaeva - 11-18-2015, 03:16 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Zhavi - 11-18-2015, 03:41 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Magellan - 11-18-2015, 03:33 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Vyce - 11-18-2015, 03:45 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by DanteScaeva - 11-18-2015, 04:23 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Zhavi - 11-18-2015, 09:45 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Sana - 11-18-2015, 05:23 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Lost River - 11-18-2015, 06:28 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Paradox - 11-18-2015, 07:24 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Nebbs - 11-18-2015, 07:42 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by DanteScaeva - 11-18-2015, 08:08 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Jonexe - 11-18-2015, 08:20 PM
RE: Difficult to fit in. - by Sahja Elahka - 11-18-2015, 08:22 PM

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