(01-15-2016, 01:46 PM)Kage Wrote: Obviously I was not there to read the exact dialogue, but was it rude because he didn't ask you and instead told you? Did he call you names? Is it because he didn't teach you how to position while criticizing?
I'm also not understanding how he left to spite you? It sounds more like he left to not get overtly upset at someone and chose instead to leave.
It wasn't the most awesome wonderful help but I am not seeing the spite and I can explain the lack of please as being curt. From what I see the player didn't send you tells about hating you or calling you names so I am trying to see why this is so awful.
No I mean that was the only message sent, then they left. As I said, I guess I am glad they left versus going on a tirade/starting a fight. The part that bothered me I guess is that I am new at tanking, we are in a low level dungeon, and I felt like we were doing pretty well. I am more then aware that I am not the best tank, but even if that was the only issue plaguing us why not just say "Hey, can you try this vs. what you are doing."Â
It didn't bother me because they were mean or being vindictive, it bothered me that in a leveling dungeon with a new tank while things are going right 90%, there is so little patience and regard for someone else they will send one curt message, then just leave. I've had my share bad/new tanks or healers, and while I can totally understand that frustration, responding like that over something so trivial just seems ridiculous. People are entitled to react however they want, but expecting complete perfection in a leveling dungeon and not addressing the problem (if there is one) early on is a level of elitism I guess I've not seen yet.
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