Dear Shy Flower,
I read your letter and I must say you seem to paint yourself into a corner. If you have tried and failed at getting interactions to stick then perhaps it is time for a new approach.
I would find yourself a more engaging friend that you can tag along with and pick up the cast offs. Generally such folks will not stick to one interactions and move along. That is your chance to pick these us as they fall away.Â
You should dress quite plain, and let your new friend be the flamboyant one. Those they interact with will soon look past your friends glamor exterior and see you as the more calm and dependable sort. Their egos will want your friend but their mind will soon realize you have some attraction too.
You can find these dynamic friends almost anywhere, you just need to have some initial interaction and then attach yourself like a limpet weather they want you or not. In fact they don't even have to know, you can just insert yourself in a bar or other gathering. Â Even if it backfires and they ridicule you, such a spotlight will only enhance your standing with some in the crowed.
I hope this has given you some ideas, and I wish you well.
Yours in insanity,
Mad Nebbs the (Un)Wyse Witch of the Woods
I read your letter and I must say you seem to paint yourself into a corner. If you have tried and failed at getting interactions to stick then perhaps it is time for a new approach.
I would find yourself a more engaging friend that you can tag along with and pick up the cast offs. Generally such folks will not stick to one interactions and move along. That is your chance to pick these us as they fall away.Â
You should dress quite plain, and let your new friend be the flamboyant one. Those they interact with will soon look past your friends glamor exterior and see you as the more calm and dependable sort. Their egos will want your friend but their mind will soon realize you have some attraction too.
You can find these dynamic friends almost anywhere, you just need to have some initial interaction and then attach yourself like a limpet weather they want you or not. In fact they don't even have to know, you can just insert yourself in a bar or other gathering. Â Even if it backfires and they ridicule you, such a spotlight will only enhance your standing with some in the crowed.
I hope this has given you some ideas, and I wish you well.
Yours in insanity,
Mad Nebbs the (Un)Wyse Witch of the Woods
Char:Â [Nebula Stardancer] Â FC: [East Eerie Trading Co]
Link Shells: [Hugs & Cakes] Â [Witches' Wyrd Web]
