(06-09-2017, 03:07 PM)IvikBlack Wrote: 1) Mateus vs. Balmung attitudes
I won't deny these exist, but they are not common. I have seen complaining about Balmung in a few forms. Some have left the server feeling like they weren't welcome there. Others are Mateus natives that resent the 'invasion' of their territory. Neither attitude deserves attention or validation. Square-Enix owns the servers and Balmung folks should be happy that embittered players are moving on and becoming someone else's problem. Mateus is not a threat to Balmung.
While I do applaud your post, there's some bias here that I want to point out. Your last bolded sentence should have gone as follows:
Mateus is not a threat to Balmung, and Balmung is not a threat to Mateus.
It's the feedback loop that's so dangerous and toxic to cooperative efforts and peaceful coexistence. Defensive Mateus natives and quick-to-take-offense Balmung natives (I freely admit to occasionally landing in the latter category) feed into each other if they're not careful to step back when discussion stops being civil.