Quote:Is it ok to OOC tell people what they are doing doesn’t really mesh with the story that you are trying to tell?
I think it is PERFECTLY alright to tell someone when what they're doing is not what you want with your character. You can control what you say/do in RP, but you cannot control how the other party reacts-- this is pretty much the basis of open RP.
Like what ExKage said, it seems like the other party was forcing their actions upon you and to me, that is not okay. They accuse you for not respecting their character's decisions, but at the same time they are not respecting yours.Â
Killing off your friend's character and simultaneously putting you(your character) in jail are big, big actions that will definitely trigger a change in your character if you do go with it... it should be ultimately your decision if you want to.
In this case, OOC communication is vital for both parties to be happy!
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