Nevia

Just wanted to say that I shared some of your frustrations during my first bout of tanking last night. I've always loved tanking, but was petrified from hearing some horror stories, as well as talk of people not liking Gladiator tanks that they grouped with. However, I had two stunning groups and a mediocre one with Duty Finder to which I attribute to communication. I feel communication is probably the most important part when playing with Duty Finder. I let my party know from the beginning that it was my first time tanking (in this game) and that attacking my target was vital. Being cordial about it seemed to help people do the same, but naturally, some people simply may not respond to you. Those that didn't listen, I let tank (and nearly die) if they pulled aggro. I only make sure that my healer is safe and kindly let them know that we can let disruptive DPS die, though I still make an effort to regain stolen aggro. Also, the early levels can feel a bit rough since it may feel you do not have a complete kit for tanking such as the taunt which isn't given till level 22, and possibly any cross-class skills you may want later on. So hang in there as it will likely become better and easier for you. And a macro thread would be amazing if you can put one together Good luck!!

Would love to participate in this. Being pretty new, it sounds like a great way to meet more people in the community and I love to tank as well! I am Nevia Lyn in-game