Lena Ouran

Your discord name ain't working.

Yep 100% understand where you're coming from Sgtteddybear despite all the other "possibilities why" mentioned by others or the snide implications that it is your own fault and that you should work around the clock to go find it yourself as if you haven't already tried I dare say. I felt the same coming over from WoW as there was definitely more of a balance there but much less tolerance for ERP so... go figure. So no it isn't just you. One thing left unsaid is that the popularity of female characters most definitely outweighs the male in FFXIV no matter what server RP or not. It is a shame that there isn't more of a balance and I wish I had better news for you but there's really nothing much you can do about it so you'll just have to count on your luck in finding those few male folk i'm afraid!