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Was I the only one who thought of food upon reading 'Roast' in the thread title? I thought we'd come up with food recipes involving the person above you. Hm, Kage. Lalas would be the easiest to roast, no? Max, you'd make a tasty roasted lala. >:3

I agree with most of this. I do want to bring up one point you said and elaborate on it though. I don't think this community is bad, or it has gone way downhill. I've been here for about 18 months (little longer) and I feel like in reality it hasn't changed all that much. People still used to get mad about certain threads, topics would get closed, and people would argue strongly. However it was never viewed as a great cancer, or things going to shit. It was just how it was, sometimes people get mad and disagree about things. I don't think there is any way to prevent it from time to time. No. I'm not saying that the community is bad. I would never say that. I said that it's one the best communities I've seen, and I do believe that. I've seen and met and gotten to know lots of awesome people here. I mean it. But when I first joined I didn't notice so many threads full of discussion wars. Maybe it's just me but recently I've felt like there's been more of an influx of aggression and threads are going haywire more. I, however, will stand with my opinion that we seemed to have gotten scarier. And that were scaring people away. New and old alike. Maybe scaring isn't the correct term but something along those lines.

I want to echo some bits of what Warren said. I don't think anyone means to actually be hostile or to deliberately hurt someone. But if it happens accidentally, or maybe even on purpose, remember that we too are humans just like you and we have raging emotions as well. Once again, I'm sure none of us mean it. I'm sure none of us want to be deliberately hostile and mean. I promise I try not to. So, don't hold it against others. Best to talk it out and fix up any misunderstandings.

Right, so I just wanted to pop on here again, and extend out a sincere apology to anyone and everyone. I admit, I'm human and I have flaws, and if I have ever done anything, whether knowingly or unknowingly, that might have hurt or incited any negative emotion of any sort in any of you, I'm truly sorry. I do not want to be on bad terms with any of you, I respect you all and look up to all of you, and I hope that if there has been any issue or conflict, that we can forgive and put it behind us and move on.

I understand all the rules of the legit talk thread, and will obey them. If I am found to have broken any of the rules, I will refrain from posting in the thread for a week. I understand that the purpose of this thread is to try and maintain discussion in good faith. Well, first off, I think this is a very valid and important thread you've posted up. Very critical, if I must say so, considering the RPC as of late. And I really hope that the thread maintains a healthy, good discussion, and doesn't derail like many others because I see it being a very well thought idea. Secondly, I have to agree with you completely about the situation of the RPC as of late. There's the happy threads (and to be honest I like them, I post on them) and then there's the discussion threads. Now, I've said this countless times, discussion, heck, even argument is not a negative thing. It's people sharing their opinions and supporting their views with solid debate. Discussion or argument does not equate to anything aggressive, or personal. It's merely the views and opinions of a person, and since each individual is unique, yes, views and opinions differ. That does not mean it has to turn out into a volatile and readily combustible battlefield. I think we need to accept that every person is different and that our opinions and views are not an obligation upon others. The same goes for others. Sure, listen to their side of the argument, but no one's forcing you to accept it. And so, there's no need to go aggressive or hostile or lash out. Listen to things with a calm head. No one's forcing their values on you. But it's also very important that you respect others, and their values and principles, as well. Very important. Lastly, I'll be honest. When I first came here, I was really really happy. I thought this was one of the best communities I had ever seen on the Internet. But lately, even I'm scared. Because the RPC is like a home to all of us. And we're trying our best to portray a negative image of this home, and try to set it aflame. So, we have to figure out what's going wrong, and make this the awesome community it has the greatest potential of being.

Warren is grumpy. Very grumpy grandpa.

Bakyn is both a cutie and a sweetie. I just get these cute adorable baby brother vibes from Bakyn. :3

When are you going to be farming Titan Ex, Nat? I'd love to join but I need to know the day and time. Any rough idea?

I really really, extremely appreciate how Nebbs stays positive and stays on positive threads, and tries to cut down the overall negativity. I really respect Nebbs for going on despite what others think and say, and still trying his best to spread hugs and give cake. Thank you, Nebbs.

Sorry but the answer to toxic/damaging behavior should never just be to 'suck it up'. If people are acting poorly and it affects myself and communities I enjoy, I'm going to try and figure out how to stop it, or remove its influence. Maybe it can't be stopped, but that doesn't mean it shouldn't be addressed. I understand. I'm not saying that it shouldn't be addressed. And I'm not saying 'suck it up'. I'm saying that there's no point in holding onto it. Sure, find a way to fix it. Sure, try to remove its influence. But don't let it damage you. Because if that happens, then aren't you letting it be successful? Am I even making any sense?

Okay, let's all be honest here. We're humans. We're prone to feeling negative emotions and letting it get to us. It happens. But the best thing you can do, and this is more beneficial to you than anyone else, is to just let it go. Forget it. Done. You can vent about it and ponder over it, and then let it go. Or just simply go 'meh, whatever' and let it go. If it really gets to you, maybe vent to someone really close, and then let it go. I'm referring to people who get bashed on. I won't refer to people who like posting negative stuff (I don't know who or why, like I said, I don't even know what created this thread). For those who get hurt or are targets, just forget it. Forget it and move on. There will always be people who will have problems with you. It's best to just take a deep breath, get it out of your heart and mind, and move on. I know it's easier said than done, but once you do it, you'll feel better. And that matters. You have control over yourself only. So keep yourself happy and calm, and everything else will be just fine. What others do is their problem and their business to handle. Not yours. Even if there are people who are against you, there will always be people who are fond of you. Hold your loved ones and true friends and good people close. If you have them, and they know you, doesn't matter what others think. My two SMILE gil.

Okay. I would like to say that this upcoming Monday onwards, my vacation starts. And I will start hunting down all the people who posted in this thread so I may RP with them. Furthermore, if any one else wants to RP, feel free to poke me in game or let me know so we can find each other and RP. Mwahaha! Prepare for the chubby SMILE marshmallow prowling for its prey: RPers! (Bad feeling that in the end, this chubby marshmallow will be nommed... ^ ^; )

Um... I'll RP with you. If you'd like. Eleni so far does not have problems with anyone. And she does not like the Brass Blades. She needs someone who she has a negative standing with! She can't be a goody two shoes who gets along with everyone! I refuse!!

Eleni is an adventurer, and loves exploring. So, she'll be going there for fun? And she loves the cold. Absolutely loves it.

I offer BRD! ilvl 119! Pick me! Pick me, I say!! :bouncy: Pwease? :3 I only BRD. -.- When is Titan though? Day and time?

Nebbs is being silly. He's already positive enough. His hugs are proof of that. A very much needed part of this community, Nebbs and his hugs. Also, new romance? What new romance?! Kurtou, you must tells me!!

Kurt is just so sweet and he is an awesome person to RP with. He just knows how to brighten and lighten up stuff for others! :3 All in all, great guy. Without a doubt.

I do not know what happened, but what's with all the negativity recently? Why can't we all just SMILE and hug and be happy and get along well, despite differences. People have differences, even twins aren't the exact same, but that doesn't mean you can't get along. :<

Aww... I would have loved to help, but I have exams on Friday, Saturday and Monday. Stupid exams... preventing me from helping. However. Yes, there is a however. If you are still running things after these dates, or if you need any help of any sort even after this, I am open. Because after exams, vacation, vacation, vacation. And RP? RP!!! Pick me! Pick me, I say! :bouncy:

Hugs for all the people who have RPed with me as of late. I really really enjoyed the RP I engaged in the past few days and it was really awesome. Thank you so much, guys! :3 *kudos hugs* Also, SMILE hugs for everyone! Come get them while they're SMILEy!

Blythe knows how to make a very nice looking Au Ra. Also, playing an Au Ra? Yes! :bouncy: (We must RPz when you makes your Au Ra and now too! )

They could hug. Lots of hugs! Or have an Eskimo kiss like kiss thingy with their horns!

Nebbs, you have a hate following? One smile and love is greater than all the hate that can be thrown at you! And you've got a huge love following, so hate is negligible compared to the love! Quickly, everyone! *GROUP LOVE HUGS FOR NEBBS* :3

Nebbs is a silly little cutie. :3 It's cute. And silly. In a cute way. :3

:< *may I hug you please? hugs* *SMILE HUG!!*