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Hey everyone! For a while now, a few of us have felt the lack of roleplay on Adamantoise. How come the people on our server can't enjoy the dynamic of coming together and creating great stories like on Balmung, Gilgamesh, or Mateus? That's when inspiration struck and we brought a group of roleplayers together to create the RP Adamantoise Discord and linkshell. Since our inception, we have grown to nearly 70 members in the discord and continue to grow daily. That being said, we will always be looking for new folks to join all the fun we've already had and will continue to have for a long time. Are you interested in roleplaying? Whether you're a seasoned veteran or just curious and want to give it a shot, we would love to have you. Our discord portrays both a social environment for our members and a set of tools to find not only partners to RP with, but events to attend as well. Please use the following link to join our Discord. We can also give out invites to the linkshell, so don't hesitate to ask. If you have any questions, feel free to message me on Discord at Fuko Ibuki#5438. Look forward to seeing you both in and out of character! https://discord.gg/eG63QNM
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I. Basic Info Characters: Corvus Bunansa Primary character: Corvus Bunansa Linkshells: None Primary RP linkshell: None II. RP Style Amount of RP (light, medium, heavy): Medium to Heavy Views on RP combat and injuries: Totally fine, just don't kill me off. Views on IC romance: Totally fine with this as well. Romance RP is actually a preferred RP Style of mine. I rather enjoy building relationships between two Characters. Views on non-romantic RP (family ties, etc): Totally fine, but do not have any currently. Views on lore: I like to stay reasonably strict with lore, but a bend here and there is totally fine. Views on chat functions (/say, /linkshell, etc): I prefer RP in /s and /em, but honestly could do anything anywhere. III. Other Info Country: United States iof America Timezone: EST. I'm available Mon-Fri 12am to 6am and all day on the weekends. Contact info: Discord @ ThatGuySaysHi#8039 LF RP Ad vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv Name: Corvus Bunansa Age: 35 Gender: Male Race: Hyur, Dalmascan (Midlander) Sexuality/Marital Status: Straight/Single & Looking Profession: Sky Pirate/Privateer Residence: Goblet, Ward 16, Plot 60, Room 1 Backstory/Personality Blurb: Corvus was born and raised in the Dalmascan Capital of Rabanastre. He was forced to grow up quickly, and began working at a young age. As he matured, he began to notice that working the bazaars and gathering was not the life he wanted. He wanted to be free. Corvus shortly thereafter began his path to become a Sky Pirate. Many years of effort and hard work paid off. Once he purchased this first airship, he took to the skies and never looked back. Corvus has lived a free life since that day. Every day is a new adventure for him. Everyone he meets is a new face, a new friend or new enemy, and every job pays better than the last. He is ever looking forward, the wind carrying him ever onward. Despite living his dream, he often finds himself wanting more and more, and doing whatever it takes to gain what he wants. Corvus's only true friend is his companion Hawk, Raz. He is never seen without the hawk. If Raz is not perched on Corvus's shoulder, he is flying high above, ever watching and protecting Corvus. Plot Hooks: A Man On A Mission (FC Related Story) A strange Cult has been reported in Thanalan. Corvus has made it a point to track them down and learn what they are up to... A Lone Sky Pirates Life For...Us? (Personal & Romance Story) Corvus is a Sky Pirate. This life has taken him all over the continent and let him meet many people. Many of those people have either become acquaintances or enemies of his due to the path he walks. This life has made him very closed to those around him and he rarely opens up. Though he may act cold and distant to those he spends his days with, deep down he does care and will do whatever it takes to protect those around him. This always on the go life has left Corvus little time for relationships, leading him to shamelessly flirt with any and all of the opposite sex. Despite how he acts, his adventures have left him cold and alone. He is slowly find that he may want more than just friends, but years of living for himself has left a think shell around his heart. As he looks out over the bow of his airship, he wonders if anyone can crack it. ♪Another Rabanastre Night♪ (Long Term RP Story) Corvus travels and privateers as an attempt to forget his past. The past where he took to the skies instead of facing the Garlean forces that bombed and destroyed his home, Rabanastre. After many years, he finally began to go back to the city and see what was left of his old home. He began to go back to "salvage", but when he returns he often has naught to show for his endeavors. Why is he really going back to his home? What is left there for him? Misc: Also looking for people to do content with. Not just RP. Both would be awesome! Mainly Looking For: Long Term plot driven RP and RP relationship building (Platonic and/or Romantic), as well as someone to do Content with due to my weird work hours.
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To whom it may concern, As the title says, I am getting back into the RP Community, located currently on Siren, but that may change when the Server Patch comes out. Still, regardless of that I am looking for some long term roleplay partners. I already have a in-depth back story but I am always seeking out ways to expand on those. My Main Character, D'ullis Daitou is located on Siren, I have another character on Siren Ihma Daitou. Also I am aware that the Siren Rp Community is limited and small, but I thought I'd reach out regardless and see what I can find. So, hit me up in game! I am always open to talk to people about setting up story and interactions. Oh, also Ingame Wife will also be added, as I know they'll be interested in this too, so yeeeer. Warm Regards, D.
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FC Name: Adventurer’s Compass FC Tag: <<AC-RP>> Leader: Dazai Osamu Officer: N’aselah Uri FC House: Shirogane, 11th Ward, Plot 57 (small) Type of RP: Gritty I Adventure I Mystery I Alignment: Grey IC Info: The Compass was formed by Doctor Dazai Osamu, with the help of his close friends. They endeavour to take on any task given to them by the grand companies and the Alliance at large, often acting as irregulars on missions needing the help of adventurers. No mission is too big for the Compass and its members, be it peacekeeping, reconnaissance, or even spelunking - the Compass does it all. Currently based out of Shirogane, they are building themselves up to best serve those who would hire them, cooperating to build a base of operations and taking on smaller tasks to elevate their recognition in the face of the Alliance, and any other potential contractors. OOC: Adventurer’s Compass is home to many kinds of roleplay and should offer something for everyone. Adventure roleplay will be a main theme for the guild, but there will also be opportunities for those who lack the ability to adventure, be they scholars, crafters or simple tradesmen. You can expect weekly events and immersive story arcs! And not to mention plenty of social roleplay, such as story nights, and other fun parties with games so we can all get to know each other.
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Returning player, kind of! (Balmung) LF friends, maybe more?
L'rhubi posted a topic in Making Connections
Hello everyone! I got into FFXIV a few years ago, but, due to RL circumstances, I didn't get very far into it. After listening for so long to friends talking to me about the game and how it's progressed, I finally decided it's time to give it a try once more! Anyway, I'm looking at getting into the RP scene on Balmung soon. Though, I'm always down for doing PvE content as well! As far as what I'm looking for in roleplay, I'm all for long-term relationships, friends, story arcs, and even some casual RP on the side. While I don't mind Mature RP, I'm not an ERPer. Sex driven storylines are okay once in awhile, but only when they make sense to the development of our characters. I am NOT looking for short-term RP that involves casual sexual encounters, one-night stands, etc. If you're an ERP alt and looking to get your rocks off, Rhubi is not your gal. ^^; Furthermore, I don't do other more serious forms of RP, such as dismemberment, permanent mutilation, general mutilation, death, etc. The usual no-no's. If you're unsure, feel free to ask! Furthermore, while I'm not adverse to finding a deeper relationship for Rhubi, it's something that will have to mature over time and with care. With that in mind, I keep RP and RL strictly separate, and I'd prefer my RP partners to do the same. That goes for IC/OOC as well. As for Rhubi herself, I'm still working on fleshing her out as a character, and I will at some point get a wiki going for her. For now, she's simply a young (probably early 20's) tribal-turned-adventurer Seeker from somewhere in La Noscea (wherever one might find those from the 'L' tribe). Aside from being a hunter and pretty decent with a bow, Rhubi is rather quirky, sometimes snarky, and pretty fun to be around most of the time. She has a somewhat carefree outlook on life in general while she looks for a way to find her lot in the world. Though, she's still a little wet behind the ears. So there you have it! If any of this interests you, feel free to send a /tell, or, if you see me with my RP tag up, just feel free to jump right in! See you guys in game! -
Returning player in need of some connections/Friends
Yvonne Maeda posted a topic in Making Connections
Hello, first off would like to start by saying that i'm not new to FFXIV, I tend to rotate between games and have always found it difficult to stick with the game because I don't really know anyone else that plays it now. I'm looking for someone who would be interested in a relatively longterm status of RP partners on Balmung, I have a Miqote and will at some point be making an Au Ra and Viera when those are released with Shadowbringers. My timezone is in CST and I tend to play in Evenings most days, Discord is also my primary means of communication cross-platform I have it on my phone to so even if I'm at work I'm still reachable, though not always available for RP in that case. I work part time and my shifts are usually just 1st, save for weekends when I am needed on Sat/Sunday afternoons, if anyone feels like their schedule would match with mine and wants to plot things let me know.. Queen#7350 is my Discord handle. -
Fiera here to announce in a few days my Elixirium will be having it's Grand Open! First bottle has no charge a promotion I am having to celebrate my long life's work coking true. This is also my living quarters so if you wish to speak on a commission for a elixir or so feel free to stop by and age a page into my book or come talk to me directly. I am accepting work before opening so you can come pick up on day of open or if preferred, I can meet you asap as I get the work done! Name: Fiera's Elixirium Location: Lavender Beds, Ward 5, Plot 44 South Subdivision for the closest Aetheryte Grand Opening: 1/29/19 2pm-5pm CST Open: Every Tuesday & Friday same times! SERVER: ZALERA
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Hello friends. I am thinking of transferring to Balmung (if I get the chance ) after the patch update that's coming up and I was wondering if there are any Garlean FC in Balmung ? I was told there were some in Mateus, but I couldn't find any ;A;
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I. Basic Info Characters: Dark Falcon (Her self given name) Primary character: See above Linkshells: None yet Primary RP linkshell: See above II. RP Style Amount of RP (light, medium, heavy): For me it is about Medium. I am quite ok with a about one paragraph though if I really get into an rp I do enjoy going further. I am not interested in single sentences for the most part though there are a few instances where it's ok. It really comes down to what my partner is looking for as I am extremely flexible in this regard. Views on RP combat and injuries: For this I think I'd prefer a lack of rolls with the exception of using them to determine whether or not an attack hits, but I always think it would be more fun to write combat instead of letting RNG decide the entire battle outcome. Temporary injuries are welcome though I won't allow my character to be permanently hurt outside of prior planned circumstances. This includes any new scars or handicaps. Character level won't be considered, nor PvP skill. Views on IC romance: Romance is accepted and encouraged. That and Smut. Views on non-romantic RP (family ties, etc): Open to pretty much anything. Views on lore: This can be a touchy subject for a lot of people. This is something else I am flexible on as I take stuff on a case by case basis. Views on chat functions (/say, /linkshell, etc): "IC speech" is expected to be in quotes always. (Brackets) of any kind for OOC conversation. /say is IC only. III. Other Info I am looking for long term roleplay. It doesnt have to be long-term but that is what I am most interested in, if you just want smut that's fine too. Again I am extremely open to most things I just currently have no FFXIV rp partners and am looking for some to fill that gap Country: United States Timezone: EST Contact info: My Discord is Dark Falcon#1604.
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Been a long time since I last RPed in a relatively structured group or setting. Hell, it's been a while since I last RPed alongside anyone else on the regular. Looking for something consistent, without feeling like I'm being 'penciled in' to RP. What I mean by that is... I'd like a community or a group to join, but I don't want it to be a situation where everyone's so busy or so set to certain times that I'd have to schedule things. Shigi is generally an ex-tribesgirl/woman who decided she wasn't into the Qestir ways, and spent a great deal of time on her own hunting and doing mercenary work, anything that required minimal communication. She still has trouble forming sentences properly, but is often at least understandable. The more flustered or excited she gets, the worse her speech tends to get, sometimes even dipping into caveman levels of speech, foregoing anything but a simple subject-action structure to her speech. Concepts are difficult for her to put forth in speech, and she cannot read or write at all, the physical manifestations of words even more confusing to her than the audible transmission of ideas. Past her language barrier, she's a very friendly woman, though she is the very definition of a wallflower. She almost never engages with other people unless they approach her, opting to watch from afar and learn what she can about others through observation. She's a very positive person, often to a fault, very frequently putting those who seem to be having more difficulty than herself in front of her own needs. That said, she is a surprisingly shrewd businesswoman, having made a good enough living on selling the results of her hunting that she owns a small apartment in the Goblet. She's about as reptilian as an Auri can get, much preferring the warm, dry climate of the Thanalan to any other region. She has a keen sense of hearing thanks to her crabclaw-shaped horns, and keen balance thanks to her thick, strong tail. Despite this, she's a runt, even for an Auri female, a small woman that relies more on agility than sheer strength. I'm usually on infrequently, but wouldn't mind being asked to hop on sometime via Discord (Aqua#7896) for some sort of RP. I'm on Central US time, and really tend to be up at random hours, my work being more on-call based than anything else. I'm also a bit difficult to get along with, not because I'm a super antagonistic or argumentative person, but... I'm a bit too aloof for my own good. I thrive when people approach me (it's a wonder I made a character with a similar trait, huh...), though once I get to know people I'll talk to them more often. Also... Balmung, in case you missed the title. EDIT: Also... I do like to actually play the game as well as RP, so an FC that does content AND RP would be amazing~
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Hello everybody! Other friends and I have noticed that the European population on Balmung and Mateus is fairly scattered. It seems quite difficult to find each other, especially for newcomers who don't really know where to look. So, we have decided to create a Discord server structured in a very simple and straightforward way, with the intention to gather all European Roleplayers on the Crystal Datacenter, which includes Balmung, Mateus and any other less populated world on the aforementioned Datacenter. We will all benefit by being able to find each other more easily, literally just one click away. The server was created today, so it's still work-in-progress and it's in need to grow! We need your help and the help of your friends to make this server grow and welcome every European roleplayer who would like to easily find others of the same timezone on the busy Crystal Datacenter. Please pass the word to whoever might be willing to join us! We also need the following roles: Lore-gurus: someone with an extensive knowledge of the lore who can accurately reply to any questions related to it. Moderators: We are small so one more should be fine! But under the circumstances that we will grow further, then we will keep this position open. Expert game players: Especially for newcomers approaching the game for the first time, these are a figure of reference that can be of great help! Chatterboxes: Folks who never grow tired to happily chit-chat with others! ... And just about anyone and everyone! Join up and help us reaching out for every RPer in the Crystal datacenter! EU Crystal RPC
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6.7.18 -Updated Blog & Information. -Officially we have shifted our concept to an Onsen and Izakaya as due to both IC and IRL decisions. -We are currently looking for staff -House is currently under construction and will be for some time. Hey folks, just getting things set up. WISrp is a Izakaya (Tavern) and Sukiya (Tea House) run out of Ward 8 // Plot 17 in Shirogane. We will likely be looking for folks to join in the near future. Please stay tuned.
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Uranami Onsen by the Sea wishes to invite you and your’s to our Thursday Social Hour starting at 7:30pm Pacific Standard Time. Please enjoy our izakaya or soak in our indoor hotsprings (sento!), perhaps a visit to our outdoor amenities through our onsen? If you haven’t yet, please try out our dry and wet sauna on our top floor. If that doesn’t fancy you and you’re of need of healing of either body or mind… Please consider our Wellness Center. We offer general healing, shiatsu, acupuncture, divination, and various other natural remedies. Server: Mateus Date: Thursdays Time: 7:30PM Pacific Location: Mist; Ward 15 // Plot 5 *Please take some time to review our onsen etiquette, they can be found at the top of our page. https://uranami-onsen.tumblr.com/ **The evening will be a mixed bath, please wear swim-wear for modesty.
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Good morning all, I hope this message seeks you well! I’m calling all roleplayers across the Crystal (previously Aether) datacenter to come and join us! We’ve lots of exciting things coming, including a dedicated site supporting forums, a dedicated Wiki page filled with Lore, regularly scheduled events and more!! Please join us as we unite roleplayers across every server in Crystal! https://discord.gg/Vmqa9k5
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The Lionguard's Pride is currently searching for players, and roleplayers. Casual or hardcore, roleplay the way you want, and run PvE or PvP content to your hearts content! The most important thing I'm looking for are folks that just want to have a good time RPing, with an excuse to go out anywhere into the world and RP, create crazy stories, either heroic, or villanous! All the while forming a friendship with the other members of the company. Currently we are looking for all classes, all types of players, and all races. No requirements to get in, just be friendly, respect other people, and be active! Feel free to message myself in game with a tell, My toon's name, is A'fen Terronar. I'd be more than happy to hear from anyone! Thank you for your time reading this!
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Hello, everyone I'm brand new to the game, just now starting, but anyways I'm looking forward to playing the game as normal as well as doing a bit of role play, though I might not know the lore I'm quick to learn, that and I do know how to role play, been doing it since I was younger, anyways I'm playing on Mateus. My character's name is Kiyoshi Huyana, Not sure what I want this story to go, but I'm sure I'll come up with something I also have Discord if you want it is Kiyoshi#7266. Anyways hope to hear back, sorry for the little details, but still nailing down what I want my character to be etc.
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The Staff & Owners of Uranami Onsen would like to humbly invite you all to our Mixed Bath Thursdays! STARTING: Sept. 6th Please come and partake of a relaxing evening in our hot and cold sento or even our outdoor onsen! We will have an open-bar in our upstairs izakaya and small snacks! Server: MateusDate: Thursdays (Starting Sept. 6th)Time: 7:30PM PDT Location: Mist; Ward 12 // Plot 50*Please take some time to review our onsen etiquette, they can be found at the top of our page. https://uranami-onsen.tumblr.com/ **The evening will be a mixed bath, please wear swim-wear for modesty.
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So it's been a long while since I've been on ffxiv and I RPed quite a bit on the Mateus server. I'm a pretty heavy RPer and raider. Might need some training in the raid department again as again been awhile. As for my roleplay, I've been active in most RP communities or any form of RP for 15+years. So I was hoping to find a guild that's about medium to heavy RP and a bit of raiding on the side.. Is I said I'm on the Mateus server my I'm game name is Hiro Akamatsu. Hit me up in game or here if you know anyone recruiting.
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HUGE UPDATE!! We received the blessed luck to have upgraded to a beach side property! Our Location has changed!! We will have directing staff to help you get to our correct location if you’re lost. NEW LOCATION: Mist; Ward 12 // Plot 50 The Staff & Owners of Uranami Onsen would like to humbly invite you all to our Official Grand Opening! Please come and partake of a relaxing evening in our hot and cold sento or even our outdoor onsen! We will have an open-bar in our upstairs izakaya and small snacks! Server: MateusDate: August 26th (Sunday)Time: 4pm PDT Location: Mist; Ward 12 // Plot 50*Please take some time to review our onsen etiquette, they can be found at the top of our page. https://uranami-onsen.tumblr.com/ **The evening will be a mixed bath, please wear swim-wear for modesty.
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Making your way through the general tableau of dockworkers and seafarers in the Drowning Wench, one figure seems to stand out among the lot. An elezen woman of sun-baked skin sits alone at a table tucked near one of the pub's walls, wrapped in a clean and carefully fitted dark grey robe. Her short, black-brown hair is styled with tight braids to one side and tousled tresses at the other. Her gloved hands gently wrap around a small metal mug, fingertips lightly tapping out a gentle rhythm to a song that only she can hear. As you approach, her eyes don't appear to react as they stare into the middle distance. You see her lips just barely moving, sounding out words that are not quite audible. As you seat yourself, the woman's trance breaks with a blink of her eyes and a small shake of her head. Her gaze turns to you and her inward muttering stops, her lips forming into a quaint, small smile of greeting. Hello there, RPC! I am Aufiene (or Aufy for short) and I'm here to announce my arrival. The character described above is Aufiene Dechambere, an Astrologian woman who REALLY likes looking into the future and planning ahead. As you can guess, she often can get lost in her own mind of calculations, possibilities and potential outcomes as she tries to chart her way through life with maths and magic. That's kind of about the general gist of her character for now, and I'm hoping that she can make some friends to form a more cohesive story. I play on Jenova by requirement; I would have preferred Balmung but I understand that server's population has been sealed up vacuum-tight and so I'm hoping I can make some Jenovan connections. Hence why I''m here, as I mentioned before. Gameplay-wise, I am not new to XIV overall but am new to the AST class. What I have played, however, has been extremely fun and so I want to flesh Aufy here out more as well as maybe grow with friends in both ability as well as power. I have chugged the 60 and story boosts and I've still got the Stormblood stuff to work through, but I hope that won't be a deterrent. Thanks for taking the time to read this smol intro and I hope to get to know some folks in-game and otherwise.
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Hello! I've come from a variety of different games from Potco and ROBLOX when I was but a young kid, to WoW, ESO, and D&D as I've grown. I've been rping approximately.. 10 years? I'm 20 now, so I think over half of my life has been spent RPing at this point I have a couple character ideas and they're pretty basic barebones. A Mage and a craftsman. Beyond that, it'll take me a while. My characters tend to grow organically as ideas pop into my head. Especially since I don't know a lot of the lore, this allows me to start with something basic, and as I learn more and more about this wonderful world, to make even more elaborate characters. I learned about this place after searching up "FFXIV Rping servers" and, well, finding one post about last year about Balamung being in an uncertain amount of Downtime. I plan on being a medium-heavy roleplayer. Not too much where I barely enjoy quests and things like that or am ic all the time I'm online, but I want it to be a majority of my gametime. It's how I've had fun in any game that has a good RP community And, for someone coming in new to FFXIV rping, what server would be good to get into?
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I've been playing FFXIV on and off for a few years now and have recently decided to try and actively join the roleplay community, while I know there are big servers that are filled with roleplayers my home is on Hyperion and was hoping that some individuals, FC's or groups would be able to help me get to know the ropes of it all and maybe roleplay with myself.
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Hello all! I've just returned from a long hiatus and I was thinking about transferring off Balmung to a more EU oriented server popular for its roleplay. I have looked around and I see a bunch of answers from Mateus, Omega and others like Lich and so on. So it's been difficult for me to really get a decent, accurate answer. So would anyone please be able to tell me the most populated EU RP server please? I'll stay on Balmung if the EU is really, really lacking in RP because RP is pretty much the #1 thing I enjoy most about MMORPGs in general. Some first hand replies from people actually on EU servers would be much appreciated! Thanks in advance! Edit: Oops! I was meant to post this in the RP Discussion forums sorry!
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Hello, I need your help/advice/anything you can offer. I’m going to give the tl;dr version of my situation first and go into more detail afterwards. Tl;dr: The gist of my situation is I am jealous of my RP partner because she’s roleplaying with someone else and I am now being mostly ignored. It makes me feel terrible and I don’t know how to stop feeling like this. My question is: how can i deal with this? Long version: Backtrack 6 months ago, i’m a normal player who barely dabbled in RP at a few D&D sessions. I’m a gamer through and through and that’s been my only past time for all my years. So I’m playing with 2 of my friends (these two are actually engaged to eachother IRL and are also my friends in IRL) and they decide at some point to change their character’s race. I thought i could join them in the fun since i’ve always played a male character in my games. So i went ahead and genderbent my character. Things were alright and we had fun together. Then one day one of these friends is attracted to my female character and starts flirting IC with her. It was awkward at first but i rolled with it and eventually i came to enjoy it. That was my first time RPing online. I've never done it before. We spent the past 6 months roleplaying our characters (4 to be exact) into a family together and we decided to marry 2 of them. We have everything ready for the wedding too we just need to set the date. We’ve always been talking during this period about our characters and what funny and sweet scenes we could put them through even outside of the game via Discord. She always called my toon "M'lady" and was very sweet the entire time we RPed. Sometime during these 6 months she discovered a roleplay server she liked and created a character there. Let’s call the server we’ve been on until now A and the roleplay server B. I joined her. Everything was fine until a bit over two weeks ago. When she stopped logging onto the A server and stopped replying even to our RP concerning the B server toons. I thought i should be polite and not pester her for an answer so i waited a week. Still nothing so i remind her. She brushes it off by telling me she’s busy. I knew she was RPing with the peeps on the B server which is fine because i’m not looking to be the only person she roleplays with. However after 6 months of investment into both our characters on A server i was expecting it would continue as it had until then. I keep getting hints that she’s distracted or that she’s not interested by her either giving me “bleh” replies, one liners, replying late or not replying at all. No more calling eachother wife or husband or lover or "M'lady" as we used to. No more of her toon dutifully offering me to get on the 2 seated chocobo mount. No more of her telling me that her heart can’t handle the cuteness of our characters as she used to. She’s got a sweetheart on the B server now and even though we had decided our characters would be together even there (in an open relationship) she pushed my character away to be with that person only. She says it’s because i’m not online on B server as much that this happened. Alright, fine. I can understand that. Even though i hated it, I RPed a very dramatic breakup scene with her thinking we still had our RP on A server. I came to her with a scene to RP for those characters. She told me she didn’t want to RP that scene. Alright. Then i asked her about the wedding we were supposed to have and if she still wants it. She said yes, but when i asked about when to set the date she told me she can’t talk now because she was RPing with someone else. Note that this has never stopped her before. I ask her once again the next day and she just says she doesn’t know and shows little to no signs of wanting us to decide together. Today, just a bit earlier from me writting this we went to the Chapel to set up the date for the marriage. Whenever we planned for the wedding she was always there at the Aetheryte waiting for me with the 2-seated mount. And I do mean always. This time she just dashed off by herself without even looking back. At one point i asked her if she was still interested in me as an RP partner. She said yes, but all the signs i’m reading from her state the exact opposite... ghosting, disinterest, bleh replies. I’ve confronted her about this before and she always says i’m fine but i think she only says this out of pity or something and I'm scared of confronting her again for fear that she'll get annoyed with me. I'm actually reaching a point where I'm starting to believe that everything I try to do whether IC or OOC is annoying to her. And so I come to my conclusion. I don’t know what to do... These past 2 weeks and a half i’ve been severely depressed because of it. I go to bed sad, i wake up sad and i can barely hold my tears in while at work. It's affected me so much that my parents, my sister, my coworkers and people on the street ask me why I'm sad although I try not to show it. I don’t know how to confront her about it without seeming like i’m pestering her because i still cherish her as a friend IRL and i don’t want to ruin that. At this point I just wish she would call it off if she’s just not interested anymore rather then stringing me along getting my hopes up for nothing. It will hurt a lot but at least it’ll give me the opportunity to get over it and heal rather than keep suffering. I’ve been reading many articles about this subject lately so I can learn about how to deal with this and try to not be the clingy guy or the annoying guy but at this point i just don’t know what to do. She can roleplay with whomever she wants as much as she wants. I won’t stop her. I just want to stop feeling like this. I just want it to stop hurting and i want to stop being a crying mess almost every day. What can I do to fix this? How should I go about solving our RP? Can it even be saved? How do I get her to be honest to me about it? Sorry for the long post, but i’m just lost... Thank you for your time.
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